Sleeper, I think the only way to cope is truly to focus on what you enjoy, so you do not feel as if life is passing you by.

I am planning on some major changes in my life. I want a new line of work. I want to live somewhere smaller.

As far as the holidays, I am afraid that I might be alone, but I was thinking that, as peace pointed out, it is only one day. As far as the season leading up to things, I will enjoy as much time as I can with D and then maybe get myself a present!!

If I am alone at Christmas, I will see about doing some volunteering. Certainly better than sitting around feeling too sorry for myself.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D