Hello all, M June 21 1991 Speech July 2007 ow Son almost 17, step son 22 daughter 33 Me 55 Him 49 OW 38 D October 2008 Is there any hope at all that because we have a divorce he still may return when he comes out of this tunnel. Everyone says no that he does not love me he loves her. That he is never coming back as it would never be the same. I say it would never be the same but same was the problem. We both need time to think and grow and then with prayers , hope and miracles he may discover that it was he that wanted this and the D was his idea. That I served him as my cousellor said it was the best thing that I could do for him. I can not let go entirely. I need to let go of what was, holding on to the good and learning from the rest. I just pray that he may return. If there is courage and love and hope then I do believe couples can make it better than ever. Please let me know that this is not stupid and that there are those who this happens to.
