Your posts are brilliant, I've been reading them for awhile.
How's this for entitlement: When my H dropped the 2nd bomb (OW) he said "I'm not a bad person, I've been faithful for 20 years, I deserve this".
As to the Reverse Babble, I'll have to think on that one - my H says things like: "It's nothing you've done, you're a wonderful person, I never meant for this to happen, I'm sorry you're hurting".
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10