I have mixed feelings. It's like...okay then...this is the key to the puzzle, and I have a place to go now to learn how to deal with it. And the other part is overwhelming because I don't know how much he is likely to change...the best intentions in the world don't really make any difference if he can't stop drinking.
BUT...one day at a time. I went to church today for maybe the third time in a year..and we sang On Christ The Solid Rock I Stand, all other ground is sinking sand....so I'll make it through, I'm standing on a rock.