....oh good..the earth didn't just split when I said that.
I've always thought I was was married to a good guy, who is sometimes abusive, and also drinks too much. Then over time I thought I was married to an abusive guy, who is sometimes nice, and also drinks too much.
But really...I'm married to an alcoholic. I have an alcoholic marriage. Which sucks, really. But at least I think I know what the actual problem is now.
