Doubts continued to creep into my being even after we got back together. As time goes on those tend to diminish. So hang in there.
As far as the recommitting to the M. It was a very slow process. I wanted it that way because I was very tired of him moving home and then leaving all the time. I wanted him to stay put where he was until he was sure this is what he wanted. He was in C for about a year before he decided that he needed and wanted to be home with his family. He brought his clothes and stuff home but left his TV and other things at the barracks where he lived for a couple of months. I didn't say anything to him. He decided to go with my son to pick it all up and it has been almost 2 years since he has been home!!
Your H will use excuses for a while, as mine did. He will decide when it is time. I know the frustration first hand!!! LOL
