Quoting sunseeker: This is true and I keep telling myself that , but I hate when I am out and see a couple gazing into each other's eyes, etc. It makes me miss what I had with my H and wonder if I will ever have it again with him or with soemone else! The person who used to love you is now an alien!!!
Wow, when my wife and I were seperated, I went through some of those same feelings one day in a pizza parlor!
I went to pick up a pizza for my guys at work, and there was this elderly couple there, must have been in their eighties. They were having a little birthday party for the husband, and it just really touched me how loving they were towards each other. Growing old together was something that my wife and I always envisioned and talked about, and, at that particular time, it didn't look like that was going to happen. I had to step outside of the place, and have a little breakdown in my car.
It's great to now be able to joke again about us moving to a one-bedroom place, and not leaving a forwarding address with the kids!
JJ
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