I strongly suggest that you read the mlc resources thread and a lot of the postings in the MLC archives. Your h is very normal for a crisis individual at this time.
I understand and I read, read and read some more.
I have hit a slump because of the new developments.
I just needed some personal attention here for a change...attention for me at this time.
Just as I see others getting...I understand it may be a burden and a pain in everyone's rear to repeat to me, over and over and over....
Thanks for redirecting me...
H came, took s10 to his place to watch some football. H nevers invites me....why should I invite him?
Oh...I'll go search for the answer.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home