Truth is she will exhibit those behaviors and try to walk over you whether or not you are her friend. I wish I had gone dark in the beginning. The fact is there was a particular place she wanted me and would throw a fit if I wasn't there.
They are like a runaway lawnmower. They're going to go where they go and tear up what they tear up until they crash and come to a stop. Attempting to stop them or alter their course won't be affective and will only get you hurt.
Just get yourself, the kids and the pets out of they way.
Good luck.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13