For the first time in a while I sense a little "nostalgia"in your post. The meeting with your STBXW affected you a little and that is more than normal. For what it is worth and what I know about your sitch, I strongly believe that you are better off continuing to distance yourself from her. You have come a long way Kerry. I think you have become (for me and others I am sure) someone who proves to us everyday that moving on happily is possible. As far as her future is concerned, I am sure there will always be a place in your heart where you will hope she is ok. She chose a route to travel a while ago and it did not include you...concentrate on your kids and yourself my friend. In the spirit of thanksgiving and balck friday (I think you gus call it): Our wives are faulty merchandise....
I agree with John here Kerry..
and the faulty merchandise reference is funny John..too damn funny..
and since nobody has ask for a drink..I'll take a Jewelers Hammer..
