Hope, didn't take any offense. I was a child of the 80's, who didn't try? But we have them cuz H is paramedic. The scissors they use for cutting clothes off---great for cutting anything. I just love it. So no worries. Got a little sidetracked yesterday that is all.
MT-night sounded calm and yes now patience. This didn't start overnight and it won't end that easily either. I agree with Hope, restate calmly, I love the way she worded. But you have to give him time to decide. I know that sucks, why should he need time? Because head isn't clear right now Because he is not in a place that makes a whole lot of sense. Logic would say it really is an easy choice. But if he jumps to a decision based on logic, it will probably not be the right choice in the end. I think that is why MLC or any crisis really is a little harder on men. They are facing emotions that are not logical and that is harder for them than women. They can't find the magic "fix" for the feelings. It is very confusing. So yes, some patience is called for. You will know when it is time to not be patient anymore.
I'm glad H helped with tub. Hope, glad you are enjoying the book!
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
