Morning all, Hope I do hope you got some sleep last night, where you up reading? Thanks for the suggestions on the drain, she has a thing to put in there to keep the hair from going down, but doesn't use it...imagine that. it was GROSSSSSSS. H got home around 7:00, and helped me get it cleaned out. Needle nose pliers and then a wire hanger that he took a part and put a hook on the end finally got it cleaned out at the pea trap. Then H went out and got one of the huge jugs of bleach he brought home in July when I was washing the house with it. Two weeks ago he said he would pour some in my small clorox jug, so I can use it in the house, but H hadn't had time. Well the tub was so nasty cause SD would just let the water rise and not clean it out. H took a 2 liter bottle cut the top off and used it as a funnel, but the just was so big it would tip over so, I took off my shirt and jeans and got in the tub and held the funnel so he could pour, then I cleaned out the tub. One thing that I hope is a good sign, is H went and got his toolbox out of the jeep, and left it in the house, didn't carry them back out.
I was watching Bourne Utlimatium when he got home, I sat down on the couch and H laid down. I still had my headache, had turned into a Migraine at that point. H was trying not to touch me on the couch at first, but then did put his feet on mine. After I let the dog out once, I told H to stretch out cause he was trying to sleep. So I laid on the floor, H gave me a pillow. I fell asleep but woke up around 10:00, and , I covered H up and went to bed.
This morning, I got him up, and H actually smiled at first, I know it is like when I wake up and reality hasn't hit me yet and I feel really good and then it hits me what life is really like. I told him dinner was at 6:00, and asked if that was OK, H said yes. I heard him in the middle of the night, with heartburn, I asked him if he had heartburn and if he took a zantac. H said yes. I said what caused that, H said he didn't know.
I am sure he went to OW's house before he came home yesterday. So I guess now I am just patient? Not really sure what I do? H is still mad I can tell that. I know he will say he is made because of the stuff I started with him and the phone calls, but I really think it is for the boundary. But I don't know I guess what do I do? Wait and see?
My head still hurts some today. Most of the time when I sleep over night they will go away, not so much today.
Thanks again, everyone for thinking and praying. It makes me feel good.
