Naej and Keyzblew I couldn't have said it better myself. My x-h's bandaid has lasted 8 years and they have been married for 3. Are they happy? Who knows. They put on a great show if not. Does it bother me? Not in the least. I am just happy not having to deal with a lying, cheating husband. I am a much stronger person than I was in the day of DBing or ass kissing as I call it. Happy Thanksgiving