WOW!!!! I am ...flabbergasted, my flabber gast has never been so flabbered, etc.
She called YOU !? To ask you to set up MC for after the New Year !!?
YAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!! *does a little victory dance around the room wearing pants on my head*
From the speed of her reaction, as you say.. you have some control back and she is a little scared. You have rocked her awake from the coma she has been in for years Jeff. I see this snowballing.. when she realises you mean business. I am very happy for you! Your letter worked! This division of labour thing is a pain in the *rse... what is her problem with taht?? I'm telling you, take a part time job or do 2 extra hours at work to pay for a cleaner and tell her you are taking her out for cocktails whilst the maid clears up...
Life is too short for excessive housework, IMO.
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread