My fear is that we don't practice enough and haven't done so in all the time we've been married, and that is a serious point I make. See now we haven't ML for a while, I can't remember when, and the next time it does happen for us, it will be sprung on me with no warning, and it will all be over in 5 seconds or it won't happen at all, as on the last 2 occasions. A lot of women will tip their H the wink, give a knowing smile, or a stroke of the arm then they know it's on, I get nothing. No warning or no sex....... great :(.
In saying all of that this weekend been good, Saturday MIL came round so she and W had a good ole chat, somthing they haven't done for awhile cos FIL normally butts in and clowns around. I had a long session at the gym, then a long soak in the bath, D7 is more relaxed around the house since we got it more in order so she happy. Saturday night W and I were in bed with popcorn and wine watching TV, at lights out she spoons into me and falls asleep. It takes me a while to fall asleep cos I'm left a bit frustrated.
So I will talk to W soon but not yet cos this weekend still has a friendly feel to it, so I won't break that by trying to force some serious talk.