Braveheart I hear you my buddy, the thing is I know she will stick by ex, whatever she wants to do is fine, the only reason I sent the letter was purely for the reason snodderley as so kindly pinpointed, to show that I am still polite, gracious and appreciate he giving son this money. I thank you all for your replies Braveheart, BeingMe and Snodderley thank you for being there for me and keeping your eyes on my sitch. I have to say I was extremely worried that aunt may bend and take this money from son and give it to ex and wifey, but when she was in contact she always said it was for son and if ex was blowing away his fathers money like water there was no way he was gonna get hers, she said he had no respect for how hard his mother and father had worked to save the money him and wifey has blown, but I guess I had a thought at the back of my mind that because she is getting old and keeps falling ill the deep deceitful wifey or ex could have swindled her into signing them the money in her will or just withdrawing it without her knowing, I am at peace with the fact that it has gone where it is supposed to go and those two conniving people cannot get there hands on it, for son's and aunties sake
