"He said he knew that, there was one day this week he was satisfied, when he had put in a good day at work, then did some chores on the farm, then spent time with his kids. That all of those things made him happy..."
Not to be a as*.. but he left you out of that situation. I was trying to catch up.. and ran across the end of this thread.
1 of 2 things.. he is lacking something.. or he is lying to you.. that I am sure of.
"He said he thought as recently as 3 weeks ago that we were going to be staying together....he couldn't point to any one thing that changed his mind..."
This says it all.. you don't make this kind of choice without reason.
He is back on the fence for some reason.. and I am not caught up enough to to have a clear picture.
"He acts very sad about the whole thing, said the only reason he doesn't want to come to my family functions even though I go to his is b/c he has done so much to hurt me when I have done nothing to hurt him, so it is different for him to be around my family than me to be around his..."
This is him waffling big time. That was either the biggest line of BS.. or how he really feels.
I am gonna have to go back and read some more.. for now.. just back off some... or take a strong stance on him staying out the other night.
You are responding better now.. I like that.. he is still telling me with his words.. that you come across a bit strong.. thats ok.. I just don't think he was ready for it.
Build some mystery.. it might do you some good.
If you could.. can you give me a quickie.. on the time after Rout? I seem to remember.. he was not following thru on some stuff you guys picked up there.
Anyway.. good morning..
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
