This is just my frustration and sheer sadness peeking through, but has anyone thought that what we are doing is just pointless. That we are trying to change people who feel they have nothing to change. That no on can truly change to the extent that we want. We're like 2 different species.
If you were to ask me what I wanted to do with my spare time, I'd say, "sex" or just simply cuddling, anything that involved being close. If you were to ask my H, he'd say ANYTHING but that. So what makes me right and him wrong??
I know " you " may say it's not a matter of being right or wrong, and I get that. But, it is a matter of wanting 2 very different things. I am with some1 who just doesn't want or feel the need to be close. That's OK for him, so where do I get off saying it's not.
Starting to see that maybe Im on my own here. That in the end Ill be forced to make the decision of either celibacy OR divorce. Ughh!
