Tx Mom, thanks for the advice. I worry about that. The card is in his name only but I know you can still be liable. He has put on about 7/8ooo on his credit card since June! Total spending out of control. But I have a copy of all his records and all his charges. My leverage will be the OW works for him, which I will use if I have to. I hope it does not come to that.

Update your stich.. will check in . take care

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09