DW- What moron would carry on an A on work e-mail.
my H!! thats what moron lol!! stick to your guns girlie!! will be praying for you
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
When I posted before about H's lack of transparency - esp. cell phone records, I made the comment that if he was calling her he probably had a secret cell phone.
Well, I found it. According to the call logs, he hasn't talked to her since the beginning of July, which is what he had told me. I'm keeping this intel to myself, I can check this phone periodically. I guess the good news is no recent calls to me. The bad news is I had asked him if he had another cell phone and he had told me no -- I hate the lies. Although I'm used to them -- they don't hurt as badly as they used to. I guess that's sad.
When you say "call logs," do you mean on the bill's detailed billing (or website), or on the phone's call log? He may be deleting his call log, if he's smart.
It's probably a pay-as-you-go phone (like BoostMobile). He may be replenishing it with a debit card, in which case you can check. Or he could be buying prepaid cards at the drugstore.
I checked the call log on the phone - calls are there from the end of May until July. Wouldn't he have deleted them all? Why leave some? Especially since he doesn't live here, and he doesn't know I know about the phone.
Gee, isn't it difficult to figure out liars and cheaters when you aren't one?
It is a pay as you go - I would assume he'd use cards from the drugstore.
We have a Dec. 9 court date. If I don't go ahead with D then, I'll have to re-file, wait another waiting period, etc.
Aarrrrgh!
Hey, how is "Another Nightmare". I checked on him last evening, but he was incoherent.
If I ask to see the bill, he'll know that I know about his secret cell phone. I thought if I keep it quiet I can check it periodically. I was thinking it was best if he didn't know what I know.
Good grief, now I feel like I'm in an Abbott and Costello movie -- "who's on first"?
As I said earlier, isn't it hard to figure out liars and cheaters when you're not one?
