Thanks TOH. I do understand missing the old h even though he is at home for now. I am seeing more and more of the old h every week. I think the old self eventually emerges.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"