I never commented on your thread before, and I see it has been awhile since you posted. Reading through it all, I just hope that things have improved since that last post.
Perhaps your H is in MLC --- certainly saying things similar to what my H said.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim