So, we had the best birthday party! The boys and I hunted werewolves at the school across the street...they thought that was too cool.
I put them down about 11:30, and they were out in about 10 minutes!!! It must be exhausting to hunt monsters!!!
This morning we got up, ate doughnuts, and went to S6's football game. H was there, but it was okay. He was very nicely dressed...and, since last night he'd told me he was moving things from one office to the other today after the game, I was sort of surprised by that...but, then I remembered that he still lies about 85% of the time he talks to me...so, I shouldn't have been surprised!!!
At any rate, all the parents came to get the kids from the game...so, I had lots of folks to talk to. They talked to H too, and everybody was polite to him! I wasn't sure a few of them would be!!!
I got to tell about werewolf hunting to all the kids' parents. I wonder if H realizes how much he's missing in the boys' lives that he would have been a part of under other circumstances; I wonder if he cares?
He left as soon as the game was over...that's the first time he hasn't walked us to the car. I had three other parents walking to the car with me to get their kids' stuff.
At any rate, he told me he'd get the birthday gift for S6 on Wed. and call me at work so I could meet him at the house. Then, he'd pick the boys up on Wednesday, and we'd have our small birthday lunch on Thursday. I hope he's still planning to get the rest of his stuff out the house and shed next weekend?? I guess I can ask on Wednesday. I've started collecting items and piling them in the back bedroom.
I had asked him in an email response to his email about the settlement to let me know when he had time to discuss it...he's not responded to that. I've marked it up...and I'm ready to discuss...but the ball's still in his court, and I intend to leave it there.
The boys and I are going to friends house for dinner tonight. We've all had a nap this afternoon and are rested so that will be fun!!
And, I'll hang around here a little longer on Sandi's advice!!!
Love you guys! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!