Do you remember H's reaction the 1st time I didn't call the boys? And, do you by chance remember your advice to me that night? You said something like..."Wait a while to respond to his text...make him really wonder what's up with you!" I remember it cause you were the only person that responded that night to my frantic post about his texting and calling!
I think this was the same sort of deal for you. And, I think it's good for W to start really seeing how things might be.
In "divorced world," she'll have to be responsible for the kids on her days, and calling you at the end of the day and asking you to come home early so she can go out won't be an option.
She's been living every WAS's fantasy for a few months now...living for herself and not be asked to be responsible for anything. She needs to begin processing what D might mean to her lifesytle.
Just my $0.02!!!1111 You did good.
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
