He talked much more than usual, I would just stop talking and wait for him to talk, or I would say my view on a particular thing (dating, etc) and then ask his thoughts, and he would share.
He acts very sad about the whole thing, said the only reason he doesn't want to come to my family functions even though I go to his is b/c he has done so much to hurt me when I have done nothing to hurt him, so it is different for him to be around my family than me to be around his...
It was weirdly comfortable. Knowing Dan, he will scramble to find a house ASAP b/c he will HATE living in someone else's house. Plus living with Tom won't give him room to keep the kids overnight....