I went to X's to pick up the kids for the day. OM's dog wasn't there but that doesn't really mean much. The kids tell me OM is going to travel to see his family for Thanksgiving. That may explain why X has asked about Thanksgiving. Last year OM was with X and our kids for Thanksgiving.
X called this afternoon and thanked me for help with the kids. That is one changes I've noticed. She seems very appreciative for the help I give and thanks me much more than she did a year ago. Another change is she is more chit-chatty when we talk.
I felt a little used today (my problem). I actually told X I'm not a babysitter as she gave me instructions this AM about the kids.
I mentioned I liked the shoes she was wearing as she had a pair like them years ago. I continued to tell her I think she might have had said shoes on when our first child was concieved. I didn't get much of a response so I added that it apparently made more of an impression on me than on her. Sometimes you hit the mark and sometimes you fall short.
I definately hit the mark ten years (to the month) ago.
I need to go dim and not be so available.
Last edited by sleeper; 11/22/0809:38 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
