Sophie, It won't be for a very long time before they realize what they've done, the destruction that they have left behind them and the family, friends and respect that they have lost just because they are searching for something that's not out there.
All you can do at this time is detach a little bit more each and every week and protect your assets. Please try to keep the focus on you and your children.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
