The trip to Disney is coming up soon, isn't it? Send me an email with the dates and other info, and let's find a time to meet.
I think what you feel is normal for a busy, married, mother of two. It's pretty comparable to how I felt when I was pulling away from my H. And it led to the crisis in the marriage. I don't have any 2X4s for you. But you are talking like a WAW, and you need to take ownership of it. Is that who you are? Is that what you want to be?
I'm not saying he's right for his way of being. But I am saying that he is pretty typical (except for the porn incident, that was not what I call typical). But going hunting instead of even thinking of cleaning the house on his day off, yeah, that's what men do. And S2's party is your thing in his mind, not his. I'm glad you hired someone. That's what I would do too. I tried for years to get my husband to help around the house. Finally I realized that he made the money, if he didn't want to help, then I would spend the money to get things done. At first I thought that would motivate him to help. But it didn't. So now I don't feel bad if it costs money to do the things I want done.
