This is a great discussion. I certainly do not believe there is a pat answer to the friendship question.In my case , The Lord has made it clear to me that being friendly is my only choice. I have to be able to look myself in the mirror every morning. I have to stand before him and I certainly could not if I did not treat my wife with dignity and love.Whether she treats me the same is irrelevant.
I agree in the beginning being best friends is next to impossible.But I can say without hesitation, after 14months I don't feel the same as I did then. I am at peace, I may not be doing backflips with excitement that my marriage is on the brink of divorce. But it is in God's hands.It is his will that I need to concentrate on, not ony my wifes faults.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
