Your last post left me confused, I wasn't sure what to think, well actually the thought that came into my head was doormat (sorry) but I'm sure that's not the case. But every sentence or paragraph you wrote was about W, what she wanted you to do, or what you were going to do for her in terms of skivvying around. Sorry again, but it was this sentence that did it for me <<I'll work on her list today, and request her feedback this weekend>>.
CL I think your W is crying out for you to take the initiative in all aspects of you R and because you don't she gets angry and frustrated with you and starts shouting. If things need doing around the house you need to spot them and take action. If W is handing out "to do list" then she will see you as a doormat and treat you like one.
Sorry, Sorry, Sorry for that big 4x2 but that's just my take on things.
