Hi, guess everyone is busy GAL and Dbing. I am cleaning the house getting ready for my older D visit who is flying in tonight. I had a session with DB coach Jody yesterday. It was good advice as always. We mostly talked about D15 and how she is not talking to H. She said that H should come for Thanksgiving since it is the only opportunity to see both Ds together. She said that if D15 got in a snit about it H needs to deal with it instead of avoidance. We talked more about Divorce stuff if asked by H and how to handle it etc. So this morning I call H and leave msg. H does not return call which is odd for him. I look at his ATM card on line and see he took money out towards the Mexican border! He went there last weekend with OW and guess he is back there again and I know the phones dont' get service there. I think she must have family there and it gives them a chance to be open about their relationship since they have to hide here all the time. H is still blowing money like crazy. So I will not call him back and just wait and see what lie H gives me why he did not call me back sooner. oh well
On a good note, went the girl Roller Derby last night and we had a great time, hooting and hollering at the players and they get into all of these fake fights. Good time with D15 and she wants to go back and see another one. Our neighbors are nice and they were alot of fun. I appreciated they took us.
How is everyone doing??? take care
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
