Karen, I am looking forward to it too. Though I probably shouldn't be watching a bunch of movies like that I will just explode. This year without is catching up with me...lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
H4H. I hope so! I forgive you-- actually I usually log in there and one of my kids jumps on 5 minutes later so I do that all the time!
One of the thoughts I've been having lately, which I can actually post, is that we drill into each other that we are making ourselves the more attractive option than the OP, shining a light, etc. And we agonize and strategize on the best way to do that. And then I think: geez look how totally unattractive our WAS are being you know. Just disgusting (well in my case anyway). It's amazing we bother, and I certainly think we shouldn't feel bummed about ourselves if we feel we made a mistake or something. I mean, I was worried yesterday I was a little too petty or something, (esp. don't want to do that b/c of the kids you know) but also my H, and then you look at how he acts and I think it's kind of ridiculous!!!! Karen
karen, in your case, we know that your H is just an ass through and through. I most certainly deserve better.
In my case, I am always able to engage her. She'll lash out sometimes because I don't think she takes her meds. She is still involved in some form or fashion with the OM, but I still feel like I am still in race somehow. She hasn't, as far as I know, made any move towards a D.
You can tell by our emails, that she enjoys having convo with me. Things were looking up, as far as our R, until the other day at her place. Things just got a little pissy.
Normal for any R, you know?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
actually I usually log in there and one of my kids jumps on 5 minutes later so I do that all the time! 