karen, in your case, we know that your H is just an ass through and through. I most certainly deserve better.

In my case, I am always able to engage her. She'll lash out sometimes because I don't think she takes her meds. She is still involved in some form or fashion with the OM, but I still feel like I am still in race somehow. She hasn't, as far as I know, made any move towards a D.

You can tell by our emails, that she enjoys having convo with me. Things were looking up, as far as our R, until the other day at her place. Things just got a little pissy.

Normal for any R, you know?


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."