Funny...you all ask. I got home a while ago and cleaning up the garage. So I started counting how many pairs that she has.... Put it this way, I stopped counting when I reached 55 and there are still another rack of them. So I moved on the purses upstairs. I guess that wasn't too bad. She has 26 purses. May be I can sell them to pay toward to the lawyer fees. LOL BTW...they are size 7 or 7 1/2.
Shoes and purses are like Kryptonite to women.
Keep on counting...!!
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!
wow..that is a LOT of shoes..I definitely am not addicted to shoes at all..my daughter, on the other hand, at 18, is definitely a shoe/purse girl..she better get a really good job is all I tell her LOL
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Well, I met with H's partner/our mutual friend last night. I gave her contact information for all of the lawyer assistance people. She said she will do what she thinks is best when she thinks the time is right. Now it is out of my hands.
I am so sad today. Hearing the things she says about him, seeing what I have seen, he is really not well and it is breaking my heart that I cannot help him or at least hug him. I know there is nothing more I can do for him right now. I know I have to keep working on GAL and PMA for me and hopefully one day for him, too. But I am sad because someone I love is sick and hurting and alone. I also feel bad for being selfish. I miss him and I want to have him home.
Why do people do this? Why do they push you away and shut you out? Why can everyone else see they are sick but them? Why does it all hurt so damned much?
Beth..hey..you are allowed to not have a GAL day..just try not to have too many of them..got anything fun planned for yourself tomorrow??
IF not..why not do something..I love to go to Barnes and Noble and grab a few books and just READ..just sit in one of the comfy chairs and read..OR..in your case..you could go try on shoes OR better yet, go buy yourself some new shoes or a new purse..retail therapy is great!
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Great ideas. I did go to B&N today and read for two hours but did not count it as GAL because I read about depression. I know I cannot do anymore for H but I still feel like I have to understand this thing better.
Anyway, not really a GAL activity for me.
Tomorrow I will make myself run no matter the temperature. I am a Chicago girl for pete's sake. I cannot believe I wimped out today. Plus I need to have a workout.
Thanks for worring about me. It really helps knowing you are out there.
{{{Beth}}} Hey..I haven't walked in a few days..tho I did get my walking on today at the game..had to walk to/from the parking lot, which is pretty far..but I hear ya..it's just been COLD!
You know..as far as going to B&N..two times ago when I went, I read stuff about marriage and found the DB book..but this LAST time..I MADE myself get something funny and something that had NOTHING to do with anything that was going on about my sitch..so maybe it would be more of a GAL for ya? Tho the shoes thing still works
Hey..that's what friends are for..I am here all night if you need me
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
You are the best. I am okay, but thanks for caring. I like your idea about reading something fun. I am going to do it tomorrow. I need a break. It has been five days of serious worrying about H being ill. Time to concentarte on my well-being.
OR better yet, go buy yourself some new shoes or a new purse..retail therapy is great!