Yes, you are doing the right thing. The Restraining Order hearing should be brief and pretty much a slam-dunk if a professional also filed a report. Just go in and have your ducks in a row; facts, just the facts. Dates, locations, events. Do you have a friend you can take with you for moral support? In our state, your H wouldn't have to be there--do you know if he will be present?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012