H4H. I hope so! I forgive you-- actually I usually log in there and one of my kids jumps on 5 minutes later so I do that all the time!
One of the thoughts I've been having lately, which I can actually post, is that we drill into each other that we are making ourselves the more attractive option than the OP, shining a light, etc. And we agonize and strategize on the best way to do that. And then I think: geez look how totally unattractive our WAS are being you know. Just disgusting (well in my case anyway). It's amazing we bother, and I certainly think we shouldn't feel bummed about ourselves if we feel we made a mistake or something. I mean, I was worried yesterday I was a little too petty or something, (esp. don't want to do that b/c of the kids you know) but also my H, and then you look at how he acts and I think it's kind of ridiculous!!!! Karen
actually I usually log in there and one of my kids jumps on 5 minutes later so I do that all the time! 