I'm not the success story most newcomers want to hear about. That's why I thought I should move to a different forum...what do you think?
I wouldn't worry about it for a while. It seems that more traffic comes through Newcomers than about anywhere else until they decide to go to another forum. In a way, Amy, you could be a lot of help to people that feel like there is no way they can make it without their spouse b/c that was where you were when you came on board. But, you have proven that you can survive and you are learning that eventually you will even be happy. You are finding peace and are in a good place now, so I think that does offer something for those who are in such a panic mode when they come here. I believe for some people, it is not a matter of thinking they can't survive without their S, but it is that they don't want to and therefore will not even allow themselves room to consider it. That is understandable. Anyway, there are others around the board that got remarried during the time they have been here or they never got back together with their S, but they are very good at counseling others.....and I think you will be too. So, just stay put for a while b/c this is where your support group is (not that we couldn't hunt you down....lol) but no hurry about moving.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
