It's Saturday...and a new day to practice my new detachment level.

I have to deal with the presence of H at s10's soccer game again today.

I'll just focus on the cute, coach:) Coach is divorced with kids same age as mine by the way.

Anyway...I find myself fretting over what will happen afer the game, that H will want to take the kids with him for the day/night.

I HAVE TO LET HIM have it how he likes it....what I mean is to NOT try to control the rest of the weekend.

I am afraid he'll tell them about the D without me. I can't stop him from that, but I don't want him misrepresenting me.

HE wants to D me! HE is getting a D from me... WE are not getting a D.

Pep talks, please

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home