Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
And Ali when he said NO ONE listens to him, I WAS listening. I don't think she listens to him the way he wants her to, either. I just think that is prob. part of the attraction in the beginning, she was not invested in his life, so she could not and smile at whatever he said and be his cheerleader because his decisions wouldn't affect her.

Of course once you grow closer to someone you start being more involved in their decisions so she must not be listening the way he wants anymore, either??


YOU can't be heard if YOU don't know what YOU are actually saying. He says one thing and does another. He has NFC.

BBJ..you know anything about OW at all?? Do you have a clue what attracts him to her??

I think you did the right thing asking him to move out..