I told him last night he needs to be out of here by tonight, he can't stay here anymore. Of course legally it is his house so if he refused, I don't know that I could make him leave, but i told him to leave.
B/C he went out for a friend at work's birthday after work last night, he told me he was going back on Wednesday so I knew he was going. Well he told me when I said Sydney was sick that if she was too sick, he would skip going out.
I told him she had a 103 fever and pulse 180 and was so tired...
Guess what? He went out anyway....I didn't say anything, didn't contact him after he called at 4 to check on Sydney.
At 12:25 last night he texted me "Just got back to Tom's house I rode home with him and am staying here tonight how is Sydney"
Really? He is concerned about her at 12:30 in the morning? Sure, that's why he called before she went to bed to tell her goodnight--oh yeah he didn't...
That was the straw for me, I am not sure why. Except that it takes me right back to this time last year when he was going out with "Jordan" from work (bachelor friend/cover-up) and would on occasion stay out all night.
If we aren't together anymore, fine, I can work with that. But I cannot work with him living here while living out the bachelor lifestyle. He needs to get his own place asap. And until he does it looks like he can stay with Tom, right?
By the way no need to tell me I am 90% sure he didn't stay with Tom anyway........................
I guess when you love some one, set them free isn't quite it...when you love someone, MAKE them leave.
I don't want to forever kill the love that remains for Dan. He will always be my first real love, the father of my children, and if he stays here much longer all of that will be tainted more than it already is........
