"After a year, in any case, he doesn't owe me one and I don't need one for peace of mind.".. I disagree, he does owe you. Why do you thnk he doesnt? He walked down the aisle with you.. and then all this. I dont get it Lisa, you are worth it you know!
You say you talked about the aub before.. but that was AGES ago! Its a moving target, things change, perspectives change, he's had an awful long time to reflect on why he did what he did?
Also.. we arent suggesting you ask him stuff just to feel better, its more about moving things along? You and him havent had any real, honest, open communication for 18 months.
Whats happening in January and why would that make things clearer?!
