Thanks Hope, I was typing while you were typing too. H was back last night. I knew he would make it be my decision. Or try to make it mine. You guys have given me enough of a heads up to know how he would react, and you were all right on. I know he doesn't want to choose, but he is going to have too.
He was physical but not with me just stuff. We did talk about me hitting the door, when he went to talk to his brother and SIL that night we saw OW's step kids, he told SIL to pull over cause he needed to move his arms, and she wouldn't and he hit the windshield and busted it. He said something about it feeling better, and I said something about my wrist being bruised and not my knuckles. I said you aren't the only one that needs to hit things sometimes. H said when was it, I said two Sunday's ago, I said when you didn't watch the Chiefs with me. H says I figured that, I said I doubt your flashlight will work again either. We both kind of chuckled about it some. I could see that he needed to move last night when we were driving to Roy's house. His hands just kept moving on the steering wheel, he was very antsy.
Yesterday, I saw the friend who had the affair's jeep at the mexican restaurant that we eat at, and is the place where his wife caught him with his OW. I asked H if he was seeing her again, H said he says he isn't. I told him I saw the jeep and H says well I would say he is then. H also said that supposedly the friend's OW called me. I said no. H said I told him you would have told me if she had. I told him why would she call me? H said to tell you about my OW. H says to his friend, I haven't lied to MT she new about it. I said that doesn't make it any easier. H says yeah I know. But H says I think friend is lying to me and to himself. H told him if she calls MT she will probably go kick her A$$, and I wouldn't stop her.
I almost wanted to go in there just to see her. Would have been funny, I would have said, well XXX this isn't the same girl you had with you at the Chiefs game last month. LOL.
I am so GREATLY appreciative of all the great advice I have gotten, so I knew how he would try to put it back on me. I know he thinks it all started because of me. I know in my heart I didn't do anything, if he can get through that we might make it, otherwise I doubt it.
