I think it's the old guilt thing, she is trying to confirm in her head that she is leaving behind a "no good worthless POS" which obviously you are not, so it must be getting to her that you are outwardly getting on with your life without her. Any bad reaction from you gives her the chance to say that's why I'm leaving him. Arthur, even with all the things you stated she has going for her, she is not happy, why else would she pick on you and keep you as the focus in her life. Stick to your guns mate, cos I don't see her letting up on you until you snap, (which you won't). Keep the PMA going, keep your time with the boys fun, keep moving forward in the direction you are going. You may not see it but she is not happy, not happy, because you are happy (or appearing to be happy).
