Hi folks, well not sure if I have done the right thing or not here, but with regards to the accounts that have been handed over for son, there was one account that had a substantial amount in that is put there by ex's old aunt and it is for son when he reaches 18 years old. I thought I needed to let this aunt know how I appreciate the fact that she has put her trust in me to look after this money for son, so I posted a letter to her last night and thanked her, I also said that what is done is done and is history now, if she ever wanted or needed to contact me that is fine, you see I never knew why this aunt stopped contacting me and son, apart from blood being thicker than water and the fact that we dont know what ex and wifey put in her mind or said against us, the fact that throughout the whole damn thing auntie remained close to son and I and then all of a sudden everything stopped and she jumped into wifey's little camp. we will see I hold no expectations but just wanted to remain polite and let her know I appreciate the fact that she still intends giving son this money. truelove hope you are doing well and have a brilliant weekend