Bbj,
I am so sorry you are going through this, again. I think that Dan is so... broken there is no way you can get to a solution and solid ground unless you ..."break some eggs". All the other kind of approaches dint work with him. And yes I think OW is in again.
Get yourself together and make some decisions for you and your life
Love
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009