so, poker I didn't win but before it all started STBX started ....again....Seems to be all the time of late. First a text that if I want car today I have to pay towards tax and tyres. This was 12 hours before I'm due to have the boys, so I just ignored it. Then, she rings me when in the pub and says she wants to change my weekend day next week. I ask why, then remember it's the xmas fete, so I say no, I was looking forward to taking the boys to that, you are welcome to come with us.

She then rings back a little later and says S^ wants to talk to me, so I speak to him and he says he wants to see mummy today, so I say no, I'm looking forward to seeing you boys tomorrow, I've arranged to see some friends etc. Then briefly speak to his bruv then STBX comes on. Turns out, she said to S6, she would be tired when she has them all day Sunday this week and he got upset so she tells him he can change his day with me this weekend at 12 hours notice without speaking to me. I lost it, she is starting to use S6 as a pawn in this and it's sickening. Obviously getting nowhere speaking or shouting or whatever, so I left it that I'll pick them up at 8 as planned....goodbye and hung up.

Someone tell me, why is she getting worse ? I don't get it, she has rid of me as she wanted, as far as she understands and her solicitor says, she is going to get everything she wants and she has a new BF. Why not just leave me be to be a dad and sort the rest out through solicitors.

Right, off to get my boys, have a great day all