Very well put, Briget. You've become the matriarch of wisdom on this thread, especially with the departure of several longtimers.

Very solid view of the need to stay in our children's lives and to keep working on cooperative parenting, for the sake of our kids.

Some of the same DB techniques, but different motivations, hey?

Stay warm!

FL

God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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