I agree with you about the female friends part, although it is a tough one to swallow. It is such a slippery slope... Especially when he isn't choosing the marriage over the 'friendship'.
Anyway- Have been trying to turn up the heat. I had an amazing day today with flirting on the phone! H was talking and I kept on coming up with snappy/flirty comebacks! I managed to sneak in that his butt was good to grab too (he was talking about playing with something), and he said something about looking good in some clothes-I said he looked good without clothes too! And it came off well- we were both laughing.
He came over the other night. He wanted to cuddle- fell asleep on the couch with his arms around me. Then he woke up and wanted to make out. Then one of the dogs threw up- was sure that all bets were off. Cleaned it up, he woke up again and picked up where he left off! Today he asked me what I did to seduce him! I let him know that he's the one who started it all- twice! Thank god for sleepy men and their desires!
Anyway- it was a good night- and he cuddled this am. He's planning on coming back tomorrow night to visit again.
He has his big test on Monday-so I am laying really low. No demands, sent a bunch of food home with him. I guess that is kind of parenting, but Oh well...
It seems like most of the women on this board have issues with controlling, jealousy issues, parenting their spouse. Maybe this is just the hallmark of trying to 'have it all?' Some twisted version of filling the roles of a man and women?
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
