That is amazing! Way to go out on a limb! Spend the day making sure you are prepared and look great (but not overdone). What helped me during the early stags when we started seeing eachother again was to work on visualizing success.
Imagine the dinner going well. What would you be doing? What would you be saying. What will you be acting like? It is the same analogy to athletes imagining themselves winning the big game, making the final goal, etc... It really helps- because you will be on pins and needles! And you need to look at ease!
Come up with a bunch of easy things to talk about ahead of time. Be prepared to lead conversations, tell stories. He will be scared to talk. He will be afraid of R conversations.
You can do it! Let us know how it goes.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
