Yep, that's what I meant by that one statement you asked about...pull wayyyyyyyy back and I do think she should be taking equal amount of time picking them up from your house as well (the house you both lived in). Make sure your house is full of happiness when she comes. Show the strong, funny, great dad h4h when she stops to get the kids. Focus on the kids. Focus on your job. Stay away from the parasites. Make dinner, do laundry, play some board games with the kids, do a family project, etc. together. Focus on that. She will want to be a part of that!!!! She will see it, hear about it, ...want it.
